Friday, January 28, 2011

Room~ A must read

Emma Donoghue’s remarkable new novel, “Room,” is built on two intense constraints: the limited point of view of the narrator, a 5-year-old boy named Jack; and the confines of Jack’s physical world, an 11-by-11-foot room where he lives with his mother. We enter the book strongly planted within these restrictions. We know only what Jack knows, and the drama is immediate, as is our sense of disorientation over why these characters are in this place. Jack seems happily ensconced in a routine that is deeply secure, in a setting where he can see his mother all day, at any moment. She has created a structured, lively regimen for him, including exercise, singing and reading. The main objects in the room are given capital letters — Rug, Bed, Wall — a ­wonderful choice, because to Jack, they are named beings. In a world where the only other companion is his mother, Bed is his friend as much as anything else. Jack, in this way, is a heightened version of a regular kid, bringing boundless wonder and meaning to his every pursuit.
Maira Kalman

ROOM

By Emma Donoghue

321 pp. Little, Brown & Company. $24.99

Nina Subin

Emma Donoghue

Donoghue navigates beautifully around these limitations. Jack’s voice is one of the pure triumphs of the novel: in him, she has invented a child narrator who is one of the most engaging in years — his voice so pervasive I could hear him chatting away during the day when I wasn’t reading the book. Donoghue rearranges language to evoke the sweetness of a child’s learning without making him coy or overly darling; Jack is lovable simply because he is lovable. Through dialogue and smartly crafted hints of eavesdropping, Donoghue fills us in on Jack’s world without heavy hands or clunky exposition. The reader learns as Jack learns, and often we learn more than he can yet grasp, but as with most books narrated by children, the gap between his understanding and ours is a territory of emotional power.

Donoghue’s ingenuity also soars as she animates the novel’s physical space through her characters’ rituals: they run around a homemade track; watch TV, but not too much, because “it rots our brains”; string eggshells together with a needle to make a kind of snake. Toys and books are treated like gold. A lollipop is a revelation.

Although I hate to reveal plot points, some are necessary to discuss the book, and early on, the story reveals that Room is actually a prison, with a villain holding the key, and that Ma (as Jack calls his mother) is being kept against her will. Fierce claustrophobia sets in — what had seemed an odd mother-child monastery is now Rapunzel’s tower or Anne Frank’s annex or a story from the news about a stolen child living in a hidden compound. Jack, interestingly, does not feel trapped; that the two live in Room against his mother’s will is not something the son knows right away, and this contrast creates the major fissures and complexities in the book: Room is both a jail and a ­haven.

Once it is known that Ma doesn’t want to be there, the careful, painstakingly constructed framework of the characters’ days takes on a new tenor. That Ma can engage and interest a lively, bright boy while enduring the despair of their situation turns her into a heroic figure. When, later in the book, someone mentions how “zeitgeisty” it is, in our thing-ridden times, to make do on so little, Ma is horrified, and we are horrified, yet we are riveted by her manner of coping — in the same way we’re riveted by Anne Frank’s bravery — and amazed by her capacity for adaptation.

Jack doesn’t need to adapt; this is his norm. Room functions like a big womb, the space in many ways a true extension of a mother’s body, a limited area of total closeness and care. It is a child’s heaven for a time and, were he to grow older there, would be his nightmare. At 5, Jack is somewhat delayed developmentally, still living wholly in the unity he feels with his mother. “Maybe I’m a human,” he thinks, “but I’m a me-and-Ma as well.”

Monday, December 27, 2010

Larry & Pat McDonald

I look just like my mother. And I am proud of it. This year will be 50 years married for my parents. A love affair that even today shines bright each time they look at each other. I love you Dad & Mom and am very proud to say I am your daughter.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

My all time favorite movie at Christmas time. Watch it every year with whomever will watch it with me. As kids, I remember sitting with my family and watching this during the holidays. Many, many good memories of growing up in a good home, in a good neighborhood, good friends, good parents, good brother and sister. I have been blessed in my life. I thank God for all the gifts that I have been given and to a family that is priceless. Thanks Dad, Mom, Pudd and Buck for the best childhood memories. Let's hope I have made some good ones for my kids as well.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

2010 Ryder Cup


Come on Phil....show them how it's done Baby!!! Go USA!!!

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

One of my favorite memories about my kids was watching all the Disney movies with them. To this day I can still quote sayings from most of the movies. Watching Jungle Book and Robin Hood at our little apartment on Apple Honey lane brings back so many memories. I can still see their little faces when they would say "Mom, let's watch Robin Hood." Us three would tuck in close and watch it over and over and over. When Katie was little we watched Oliver and Company..."Get off my back woman, I'm driving" still cracks me up.
So many happy memories of my little ones. They were beautiful then and they are beautiful now. I love you Stevo, Dano and Boogie. Always.

UP Carl Meets Russell

Monday, September 27, 2010

Jeff and Stephen went to the ReAL game on Saturday and had a blast. First they went to Iggy's for beer's and dinner and then on to the game. Jeff came home and said that they had the best time. I am so happy that Jeff does a one on one night with all of his kids. Let's them know how important they are to him. Love you Papa and Stevo.